what do you look for?

there are just days when you wonder about stuff.

seems like these days, more recently, i've been wondering what i look for in a guy.

i don't know what it is, but i've been rather pre-disposed towards guys lately.

no lah, i'm not dating.

hardly.

i'm just catching up with friends, meeting with coursemates, and eyeing MAJ Eye Candy amongst others. you know, i'm having a life.

and i think this "having a life" thing is doing good for me. i seem to be glowing somehow. (minus the bad skin cause of bkk.)

so anyway, all these activities have somehow got me thinking about what qualities (or quantities) do i get attracted to.

i don't think money and luxuries is that impt. a car would be good, but i'm fine without one as long as he doesn't scringe on cab fares (coz i don't). u don't have to be rich, but it would be nice if i didn't have to pay for small things like a drink or a meal, even though i can well afford it. i don't need luxurious and expensive gifts, coz i can afford on my own, but having 1 or 2 once in a while could spice things up a bit.

actually, i'm more of the little things kinda person. i don't like gifts JUST for the sake of it.

which brings me to digress a bit about my coming birthday. just 3 rules:

1. no cash and/or vouchers.
2. no birthday cakes.
3. SURPRISES please!

thanks.

back to the topic.

i think intelligence is attractive. i think understated humour is also attractive. i like it when guys have strong opinions but they are willing to listen to what you have to say. note: listen, not hear. it's like the perfect GP essay, you have an opinion, you discuss the alternative view and agree that it may be so, but still stick to your own principles and values. i think that's hot.

k, now i just sound like a nerd.

i don't like whiny boys. i don't like people who keep things to themselves and think the world can read ur mind. i think if you got something to say, say it. don't think soooo much about how or why or when you should say it (though u may wanna consider it a bit). in other words, don't act like a wuss la.

ya...i know people like that. it gets on my nerves because they take 2 damn hours to say a thing that could be said in 2 mins...pausing after every word and breath. ARGH!!! say, dammit! *punch punch* say!!!

ooh...and i tink guys who can click with your friends and have fun with all your friends, BUT still have eyes for you only...oh man, they're the gem! *swoon*

no la.

no man yet.

i'm not consciously looking for one anyway.

i'm high-maintenance.

ha!