Da Nana Code

first and foremost, someone or some people have been reading my blog and making wild-ass speculations about me or what i write. i don't really care if whoever reads my blog, even if it's in all secrecy. really don't give a crap. you can be just kay-poh or wanna know more about me. go ahead man. i'm actually quite flattered. but since when did anyone have the right to make wild judgments and speculations about me TO other people?

usually, i'm not in the habit of explaining myself about what i write to anyone, especially numbskulls of the abovementioned. so...

consider this one reeeeally rare occasion.

k...

YES...i know that by putting my writings in a blog instead of a diary means it's being made public for anyone and everyone to see and even scrutinized. so i'm kinda asking for it. but i write for a few reasons. 1. to let my friends know what i've been up to when i don't or can't call them or email or meet them. 2. to reason out my inner demons, share my feelings or thoughts or ideas. 3. to vent and release all the emotions pent up inside. because...this is err...like...MY BLOG?

obviously, i understand that some people may or may not agree with what i write. some may get offended by things i say because we are all humans and as much as i try to channel my journalistic instincts and be objective (and punctuate correctly), i think it's fair to be a bit biased and less rigid sometimes because...err...again, it's MY BLOG?

understand this too. anyone can have their two cents worth and disagree or agree. but the right place to do it is at the "comments" section or in the tagboard. if there is something you read that you don't like, or is unhappy about or disagree, there are 2 ways of doing it. 1. the matured way of diplomatic writing in your unhappiness and comment/tag. 2. if you wanna push it, you can ALSO slam me in the comments/tag and allow me (or my friends) to slam you back.

BUT i really cannot stand it when you wanna be all secretive about it, and then think too much about what i write, and WORST of all, blabber about things i write, adding in your dash of spices. and...and...and...speculate about who or what i might be writing about.

i usually don't have a hidden agenda because i really don't know for sure who reads my blog, aside from stef and shirley of course.

think about it lah. i don't mention names, nor hint, unless it's crappy stuff like who i went out with and did what things. i simply state situations and phenomenons that i don't like. for example, my last post. it's a phenomenon i can't stand, not anyone in particular that i can't stand. i don't make up stories about people, or spread rumours, or speculate about other people. if i don't like u...trust me, i will let you know in your face instead of hinting it here. i prefer to be active than passive about it. so what i write, it's either facts, or information about me, or just my thoughts.

can't people just read and comment instead of being all sneaky about it and think the worls revolves around them? i don't know who they are and i don't intend to waste my time to find out. so whoeever is making a big deal out of what i write and tattling, you must really think you are a big deal. or else why are you so bothered about what i write?

there isn't a need for me to explain myself, so i'm done with this shit. if there are really people who think i'm so good at being cryptic, well, wake up and smell and frangipannis. maybe then, they'll see the BIG picture.

HA!