看开一点

最近一直和一些好久没见的朋友/人会合，其实还蛮开心的。

可是。。。

就偏偏“来”了一两个。。。也不知道怎么说。。。给了我一些比较negative的vibe。

我是觉得，有时嘛。。。凡事还是要看开一点。 反正事情已经过了那么久，而且现在everything worked out for everyone了。所以，也不需要耿耿于怀。

尤其是在事业上，（虽然自己是女的）有时还是会觉得女人对事对人，总是感情用事。work is work. 可能以前刚开始当上班族时，已经上了宝贵的一课 （最糟糕的事与人都遇过了），所以现在才会看得那么开！哈哈

anyway, in this particular case, 我觉得是这个人的思想和人生观也有点偏差啦。可能要等到这个人开窍吧。几时才会开窍呢？这个就由不得我了。

it's just quite infuriating sometimes. was just discussing with some friends a few days back about the difference between children and adults. children are much less self-conscious than adults. this consciousness...i think...is what makes people more stubborn, more self-centred, more unwilling to look at yourself and more inclined to blame others as people grow older.

sometimes, i wonder how long it takes before one gets it.

嗨...不管了啦.